At the root of it all, you know what it is about him that makes you not compelled to him. Maybe if you don’t want to admit whatever that is to yourself, your friends may give you some insight. Often, our friends know our taste when our self-acceptance blocks away some ideas. Maybe you’re still not over your ex but won’t admit it to yourself. Maybe you think he’s a loser for whatever reason, but you don’t want to feel that mean. Or maybe he isn’t your type and you just want to be friends. Whatever the reason is, it is there it just takes a little searching.
